Posts in Connecting
Lessons I Learned From My Christian Communities (and how I'm revising my notes)

Unsurprisingly, church hurt/religious trauma was at the heart of my emotional distance, and upon further examination, I can clearly pick out the “hard lessons” I learned from my interactions with fellow Christians. Most experiences have left me jaded, bitter, and doubtful that I belong in a fixed Christian community like church. But some have revealed God’s love, faithfulness, and grace…

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Heaven Will Be Full of My Fake Friends

One of the sad ironies about the way that church is done today: we are a relationship-based organization that is really bad at relationships… It’s a miserable revelation that many committed Christians have had to endure in these recent years of scandals and schisms–that a lot of our church friends are fair-weather friends, whose love and support depends on if you’re still in good standing…

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Friendship in College

Jesus placed a high value on friendship, demonstrated through his words and modeled in how he related to others. This holds true for us in our current world… close friendships provide protection against mental health issues such as depression and anxiety, response to stress, and heart health in difficult times, while loneliness increases the risk of heart attack, stroke, and premature death…

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